B.S. (Union County, NJ) - His Story
I have been losing my hair since I was 21 years old. At first it was a devastating experience since I was at my sexual peak and supposedly in the prime of my life. As a young adult I felt less attractive than a guy with a thick and full head of hair. I became insecure about my appearance and usually would hide from social situations.
When I turned 27, I decided to invest in a hair piece or a hair replacement system. Even though they never looked real to me, I wore a hair piece for 24 years just to feel better about myself. Over the years they became quite expensive to maintain but I continued to use them as my security blanket.
Finally in June of 2006, I decided to throw away the hairpiece, shave my entire head and grow a goatee. Luckily it was the summertime and I was able to get a nice even tan which made my appearance much better.
At first I was very insecure and it took a couple of months to get used to the extreme look. After a while I started to really dig my re-incarnation and started to become very creative with the new look. Throughout the coming year I would experiment coloring my goatee [white on brown, brown on white, etc]. I bulked up over the summer and was told that I looked like a tough guy and wrestler.
I am so glad that I made this decision and I am sorry that I did not do it sooner.
I find myself shaving my head every other day. At first I used an electric razor but found that using a razor blade got me a much closer shave. The only part of having a shaved head is the cold, brutal winters. I find myself wearing a wool hat most of the winter to keep the heat in. In the summer it is the greatest and most comfortable feeling not to have hair.
That is my story and I hope I can inspire others who are losing their hair to just to take it off and free themselves. A shaved head today is much more acceptable than it was years ago. Today, some of the most sexiest people, actors and athletes have the look. To get the look I use Barbasol shaving cream and Gillette Mach 3 triple razors.
I hope that my story will inspire those of you who are hesitant to make that first move towards freedom. - B.S.